Him: I would like to take you out. Dinner Friday?
Me: Hmm, Okay!
Him: I will make the reservation and see you at 8pm.
Me: See you Friday!

I don’t feel like going to dinner with him because my intuition has already informed me it is not a connection, but I’ll go to see how we vibe in person. Friday rolls around, and I am dragging because I don’t feel like going out, but he is coming to my side of town, so I get dressed. I throw on a top, shorts, and heels, and I am headed to the restaurant. He is late! Suddenly, I see a car driving fast through the parking lot, and I already know it’s him. I am still in the car waiting for him, and the restaurant is packed. He calls and tells me that we must wait 15 more minutes, and he’s waiting for me inside.

I immediately spotted my date when I entered the restaurant. My date smiles, and I walk over, and we hug. He is a lovely dark brown complexion, lean, fit, with nice muscles and a great smile. The restaurant is very crowded, so we are waiting in a bustling small area on opposite sides of the wall. He looked me up and down like he is about to put butter on me and eat me like a biscuit. hahaha I am thinking, “Oh shit! Let the games begin”! He is ready to eat, so he keeps going up to the hostess, inquiring if our table is ready, and she is tired of his ass. Finally, we are seated! The waitress comes to the table to take our drink order, but I ask her if we can also order an appetizer and our meal because the gentleman is hungry, and there is no need to waste time.

The restaurant is around the corner from my home, the food is terrific, and I can’t believe that I’ve never been here before today. The waitress brings our drinks and then the appetizer. We are chatting and laughing, but I know we will not be going out again after this date. Then, our food arrived, and his order was wrong. He straightens out the waitress’s mix-up and begins to enjoy his meal. We continue to laugh and talk, but there is no spark, but he’s very handsome!

Next thing I know……

Him: Do you like sex?
Me: Why?
Him: How do you like it?
Me: I’m thinking, why the hell is he asking these questions
Him: I think that I have all that you need. Would you have sex with me?
Me: No, sir
Him: Why?
Me: I don’t think that we have any chemistry
Him: Oh, okay.

I have so many thoughts! I appreciate him being honest about what he wanted and not hanging around for a couple more dates just to f&$k. I appreciate that he was mature enough to not disrespect me because I said “No!” The fact that he asked the question and didn’t beat around the bush was appreciated. He wasn’t rude when he asked the question, and I am sure that some lady will gladly serve him the kitty kat, but it is not me.

The restaurant is not cheap, and the bill will be approximately $300 or more. Now, I am thinking when the bill comes, he might say, “You pay your half since you won’t give me any ass!” hahahahaha I would have paid with a smile because I’m not f&*King for a meal, so it wouldn’t be an issue. He paid the bill, we still laughed and talked and the night was over.

He walked me to my car, hugged me, and thanked me for a good time.

Until next time!
What’s next starts now!