Hey, Y’all, hey!!!!
Oh, what a year 2021 has been!!
The last couple of years with Covid-19 and all the variants have been crazy!! Before the shutdown in 2020, I had a trip to New York for my birthday, Dallas for business/personal, and Los Angeles to see family. I had a wonderful time at each location, which got me through the first part of the pandemic because I visited people that I loved before the shutdown! Being laid off in April 2020 from a job that I didn’t enjoy was a blessing!! I would not have been able to work that toxic ass job and maneuver the “new normal!” My friend and her family moved to Atlanta, so I was with them, often helping them get settled and eating dinner. I was also a personal shopper during this time because I was at Costco daily looking for Clorox wipes – LOL.
Fast-forward to 2021, I loved my part-time contract gig, partied to D-NICE on IG daily, and at home wearing red lipstick (my signature) with heels like I am going out into the world – LOL I wanted to do things that felt good to me. I took a day trip to Detroit to visit a friend, stayed a week in Mississippi, and weekend in DC for a networking dinner. Oh, and a night in Chattanooga, TN for a concert, a night in Savannah, a few hours in South Carolina for a date, and decided that I would live in California and Atlanta until I decided otherwise. However, on the flip side, my damn anxiety was through the roof due to everything surrounding Coronavirus; I began walking six miles a day, four days a week, to help with my anxiety.
A few lessons that I learned in 2021
- Love on the people that mean a lot to you!
- Mental health is essential, and it’s not only for when things are not going well. Find you a great therapist!
- A good group of friends can get you through anything!
- Remove shit from your life that does not serve you, and that means family too!
- Put in the work to live the life of your dreams!
- Good ole fashion intimacy never goes out of style; there is nothing like a good kiss.
- A good hug is healing!
- Your words have power, so always speak GREAT things over your life, family & friends.
- Set your damn boundaries!
- Bad days don’t last forever!
- Music is good for the soul!
I am excited about 2022 for me and YOU!! I don’t have any New Year Resolutions, but I have written my goals and created a plan of action! I hope you are working towards a few goals and being a better version of yourself.
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