Heyyyy, good people!

How are you? I hope all is well in your world, and that you’re being loved and supported in a way that makes you feel like you can conquer the world! I am sending love and hugs to anyone facing health challenges, caregivers, or anyone having a hard time right now. Please remember it can’t rain forever, and try to stay positive despite the circumstances. Keep knocking out your goals, moving your body, being good to people, kissing, hugging, touching, dating, and praying.

When I was in Thailand, I bought some flower hair decorations, and I have been wearing them every other day hahaha. So much shit is going on, but the flowers remind me of my amazing time in Thailand, and I feel like I am on vacation. I love creating tiny bits of joy wherever I can.

Before I went to Thailand, I met up with “Him,” and he looked as handsome as ever. He arrived in front of the house, and I was standing on the porch watching him in the car. Once he realized I was watching, he hopped out the car laughing. He complimented me, opened my door, and we were off to dinner. Dinner was yummy, and we headed to a bar to hang out a little more before he dropped me off. I will see him soon, and I always look forward to the moments that we get to hang out.

One evening I enjoyed the Atlanta Symphony in the park, and it was a good time. I called my friend to confirm that we were going, and he met me up there. He saved us a good spot, and we had a great time. It was a very chill evening with great music and prosecco.

I took myself on a few dates, and it was amazing. I went to a candlelight concert, then had dinner reservations. I sat at the bar, and a couple who were also at the concert arrived and asked if I minded moving over so they could sit down. Sure! So I moved over, and the husband sat next to me. This man was so chatty hahaha. He said, “You were in the candlelight concert?” I replied, “Yes!” He asked where I was from; he was from Northern California, and his wife was from New York. He told me about a great happy hour spot, mentioned a few other places, and asked if I was married. He told me they’d been married for a year, and she was lucky, and he chuckled, haha. He then told me I need to put myself out there to meet someone and suggested a few places to meet a man,, haha. I said, “Thanks!” He kept talking, and at times his wife would chime in, but she was talking to the woman next to her. I told my friend at the gym, and he swears they were trying to take me home, but I didn’t get that vibe.

I got together with my friends to celebrate two birthdays, and another friend received her doctorate. We all arrived with gifts, ordered libations, and started chatting when the restaurant lights went out, and there was no ETA for when the power would be restored. Can you say HUNGRY! We drove so fast out of that parking lot to the next restaurant because we were so damn hungry hahahaha. It was a great time, and I love getting together with my friends. We chatted for hours and celebrated the various occasions.

Oh, I am also at the beginning of an HOA scandal! Hahaha, y’all, these shady ass people are up to no good, and they need to rectify this situation ASAP! So we have hired legal representation because this situation isn’t fair to the owners. Our next meeting is about to be so damn crazy because people are upset, and emotions will be high. I feel like I am running for office because I am going door to door chatting with neighbors that I have never met before. Everyone is already dealing with a lot, so having to deal with this pisses me off, and I pray we have a better decision at the end of this.

My neighbors are a couple, and they have been living here for a few years and are generally quiet, but recently they have been arguing at 2- 3 a.m., and I can hear her crying. 😳 At this point, I feel like I am in a relationship, and we need to fix this or break up. I am in the kitchen getting olives, and I hear something banging on the wall, and I hear someone holler, “Glitter!” and “Get off of me!” so I am in the kitchen like, WTF is going on. Then, she hollers my name again, and I take off running downstairs with my headset on because I am in a damn meeting hahaha. When I arrive, her face is smashed against the glass 😳 I say, “What is going on?” She is hollering, “he won’t let me out,” but he looks me dead in my eyes and say “nothing!” WTF! The door opens, and she runs to her car. I haven’t seen him in a few days, so I assumed he moved out, and I didn’t see his car today. She jumps in her car and leaves, and he walks over to me with a calm demeanor and pain in his eyes and says, “We are breaking up because she cheated on me, and she locked me out of the cameras. Have you seen anyone over here? I need her to talk to me.” I shared that I haven’t been home and have no idea who is over there, but he can’t make her talk. He needs to be careful because if someone calls the cops, he’ll be in trouble, and he doesn’t want that. I don’t agree with his behavior, but the pain on his face and his calmness were unnerving. I shared that I am not sure how he can get her to talk, but he is going about it the wrong way. He said, “I know, I can’t make her talk.” he looked like he was going to break down and cry. I pray he heals because situations like that changes a person’s heart posture, and it’s never the same! The person he dates will experience all of the residue from that relationship which is a hard road! Now, I know better than to run my ass down there with no protection, but nothing like this has ever happened before, so I was caught off guard. He came back the next day with friends/family and retrieved his belongings. He looks depleted and sad; I hope he doesn’t crash out anymore!

On another note, it is cuffing season! The humidity is gone, and it’s perfect cuddling weather! I would only suggest cuffing if you both like/love one another and are crazy about each other. IT MUST BE RECIPROCAL!! Anything else is not a good cuffing scenario. However, keep in mind that character outweighs all superficial shit!! A person can have and make money, but if they don’t have great character… good luck to you! Reciprocal love is one of the most amazing, world-changing feelings. Please don’t let people waste your time and fuck around with your feelings.

Until next time!

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