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Not Much Going On
Hey, good people! I hope you are well, healthy, happy, and taking things day by day. Gas is high, and inflation is out of control, so if things are less than stellar for you, it is okay to acknowledge those feelings, too. I hope you are trying new things and doing whatever brings you joy. There is so much going…
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Wah gwaan?
We met a few years ago at the farmers’ market. He walked up to me, introduced himself, and looked me up and down. He’s Jamaican and from NYC. He speaks fluent Spanish, loves reggae, R&B, and soca. We went out a couple of times, but he also shared how he is a homebody and doesn’t like to go out much.…
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No Confusion!
June 2025 Male Friend: I will be ready to be in a relationship in 2026. I am done with dating, and I will NOT be the single old man. So, by the end of this year, I will be in a relationship, and I want to get married. I am baffled by his statement because he has a rotation of…
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Plus One
It is the start of the Holiday Season, and my first party was last weekend. I reserved two, but I had no one particular in mind, just in case a friend wanted to go. The day of the event arrived, and I had no guest, but I was ready to attend the Detroit-style-themed party. I arrived, and the host, a…
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Birthday Time!
My birthday month was amazing! I did not have any large gatherings or parties, but I celebrated in Georgia, Florida, and California. My friends had me create an Amazon birthday list of things I wanted, but I only had 4-5 items. Hahaha, I couldn’t think of anything I really wanted, but I love cards and birthday calls/texts. I received birthday…
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Happy New Year 2026
Happy New Year! Cheers to a year of increase in all areas! Here’s to flourishing, reciprocal relationships, community, and being loved in ways you didn’t know you needed! I hope you are well, caring for your mental and physical health. In 2025, I shed a few relationships—this was tough. I value relationships, but when they no longer serve either party,…
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Friendship & Food
Mommy: Hey, Babygirl! I will be home soon, but I am hosting Thanksgiving at my place, and I would love for you to come.Me: Okay! I will be there. I am traveling to my Mommy’s for Thanksgiving, and I haven’t been on this trip in approximately 2 years. She was in Namibia, South Africa, for two weeks, and she was…
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Sprinkles of Joy!
I enjoy weekday outings! One of my friends gave me tickets to a Hawks Monday night preseason game, and I asked a few friends, but they were not able to attend. However, one of them called back with a proposition, “Hey, if the ticket is still available, we can go to the basketball game first, then walk over to the…
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Goodbye Summer
Hey, good people! How are you? Please try to celebrate YOU, move your body, and hug someone. Hugs are so powerful and healing! When someone gives me a good hug, I never want to let go haha. My Mommy used to hug me all the time when I was growing up, so I am a hugger. A lot is going…
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Summer Time
Hey, good people! It has been a while, and so much has happened. I hope this blog finds you well, in good health, and surrounded by loving relationships. If this is a rough time for you, don’t forget to do things that bring you joy, ask for help if you need it, and Prayer changes things. There is so much…
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What a Summer!
Hey, good people! I hope life is good to you and you are being good to yourself. I hope you are making great decisions, managing your time well, and have great opportunities available to you. I also hope you are experiencing loving friendships, taking naps, having great moments with your lover, making money, being creative, and experiencing moments of peace…
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Outside
Heyyyyy, good people! It has been a while. I hope you are doing well and surrounded by love, spending time with friends, and speaking up for yourself. I hope you are NOT all work and no play. I hope lovers love on each other, you both are being great listeners, do not take your person for granted, and love each…
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Quick Trip
Heyyyy, good people! I hope you are smashing your first quarter goals, kissing and hugging your lovers, spending time with family and friends, and doing things you enjoy! We must be intentional about the things that bring us joy. It is pollen season, and my allergies are going wild! My eyes are watery and itchy, and I can’t stop sneezing.…
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Miami
Friend: I am going to Miami, and tickets are $52. Are you down to go?Me: I’m down, and I booked my ticketFriend: Yayyyyyy! Oh, and our other friend is going too! I may need your passport because we will be on the cruise ship for a few hours.Me: Bet! The day arrives. I threw my belongings in a tote bag,…
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Happy New Year 2024
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hey, good people! I hope you are happy, healthy, wealthy, and looking great! Please remember that if things are not going great, they’ll improve, and you are still here to live another day. If you need help getting to the next level of your career, relationship, healing, or getting out of a dark space, please get the…